Birthday Traditions

Spring is birthday mayhem in our home! I love it...it's a great way to celebrate our way through the last part of winter and right into the spring. I have a mission for you. My birthday is tomorrow and I want to know your birthday traditions.

What did your mom ALWAYS do for you?

What is your fav part of birthday celebrations?

What is a must!? Recommendations?

Ok. keep in mind it's tomorrow so I don't have time to do crazy things...no trips to Mexico ideas...even though that would be amazing right now.

 

Have you watched Parenthood?

Oh my goodness. I just watched the first episode of Parenthood and... ...I can't stop crying.

Family is so messy and this show tells that story...the real story.

It hits me in the heart because I'm okay with real.

I don't mind crying...I kinda like it.

My siblings and I are parents now. We're not perfect. My parents weren't perfect. Our kids aren't perfect. Our spouses are perfect. and I'm okay with that...my family makes me smile.

Parenthood is a mystery and it's really hard.

I'm okay with that.

Have you seen this show? I'm probably totally behind all of you but I'd love to hear your thoughts.

the photographer winter brain

As a wedding and portrait photographer...I spent a lot of time looking for light and delighting it. So I'm looking for the light in my life today. I love sun reflecting on the snow...and when it's not so cold that  I want to cry because my eyes are watering anyway.

I love when my son steps out from the van and into the sun cold and says, "It's beautiful out here!" (A phrase he no doubt heard me say in the summer. :)

I love that yesterday morning when I woke up my daughter the sun beat me to it. And I breathed a little deeper.

I love that I can feel the season moving by and the days lengthening and the sun shining a little more everyday.

Winter has beauty and I have seen it. Now I'm ready to see spring's beauty. Winter shouldn't hog so much of the year. Spring needs her time...just saying.

What have you delighted in this winter? What are looking forward to this spring OR SHALL WE DARE START THINKING ABOUT SUMMER?

Social media and blog planning e-book

If you're looking for a great tool to help you understand Social Media and Blogging I would highly recommend this new e-book! The author, Rachel Greenhouse, is the reason I started blogging in the first place.

Seriously. I listen to her.

Here's the details:

RGPhotoSq author + designer: Rachel Greenhouse format: PDF e-book price:   $10 where to buy it: http://letsgetsocialplanning-book.eventbrite.com/ 36 pages, including 7 worksheets to create your own plan + schedule

some of the topics included:

what is social media? what is a blog? why social media? why a blog? which social media? how should you “do” social media + blogging? how shouldn’t you “do” social media + blogging? your commitment + intention = you get to decide!  what is content creation? how do you turn your ideas into a calendar and posting schedule? create your general monthly plan + create your specific monthly plan

also offering classes...only 8 women max per class info is at http://www.rachelgreenhouse.eventbrite.com

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Why I Zumba...

...a couple of months ago I felt this urgency to try something new. I needed to do step out of my comfort zone.

I needed somewhere to check my brain at the door and sweat hard for an hour.

I needed a place to "safely" make a fool out of myself...I knew I had started to take myself WAY too seriously.

I needed to shake and laugh at how I don't really know how to shake!

I needed to get out frustration. Punching the air was a better solution then other options. :)

Fast forward to present day.

I still love Zumba.

I'm still not a dancer.

But, I still need a place to be silly and laugh at myself.

I still need to get out my frustration at life...and all that I'm not in control of.

This life is uncertain, fluid, constantly changing and I have to change with it. More then that, I need to live in the place where I'm trusting the Lord to guide me every step of the way. Deep breath.

What have you done recently to step out of your comfort zone? Are you frustrated every day and can't seem to get over it? Are you taking yourself too seriously? (Don't know if you take yourself to seriously? When was the last time you laugh your head off at your mistakes? If you can't remember...you take yourself too seriously.) Why is it important not to take myself too seriously? Because if I don't have grace for myself to make mistakes then I DEFINITELY won't have grace for other people to make mistakes!!

I want to have grace for myself and others to make mistakes.

Time to Zumba!

Introducing Reese Helena...isn't she beautiful?

I don't shoot a lot of newborn shoots anymore and sometimes I miss them. This precious little one help fill my cup back to full. There's something about holding a newborn that slows your heart rate and makes everything more peaceful. I love her name. Reese means enthusiasm! Can't wait to see who she becomes!

Sleep well tonight.

When I lift my eyes up...

...I know where my help comes from. I find myself praying this prayer a lot lately. I'm blessed with work and living the dream. I have my own business and I'm home with my kids. Is it happily ever after? Yes, but it's mixed with blood, sweat, and tears. I'm willing to work hard for something I love and something I know is what I'm called to do. Lately, I've been inspired to look around me at a couple of friends of mine who are living their dream too. Not that living you're dream is easy...but, when it's right and it gives incredible joy. Ready to be inspired? Get out the tissues. Meet my friend Jen. She has an incredible story and this year she decided to share it with the world. In her own words,

"This year I am taking the plunge and training to run the Twin Cities Marathon on October 7th. I've decided that if I am going to pour myself into hours and hours of training, I wanted it to count for something more than a check mark off my bucket list! So I have decided to run to benefit New Life Family Services, a non-profit organization who compassionately opens their doors and hearts to women and men who believe abortion is the "only" solution to an unplanned pregnancy.

I know all too well the confusion and emotions of an unplanned pregnancy. Like many can likely relate, my life was rocky growing up. As my teenage years set in I started down the wrong path and, at 15 years old, I found myself pregnant. I felt scared, alone, hopeless and like a failure. What was my mom going to say? What would my friends think? What in the world was I going to do? I didn't want to have an abortion, but I couldn't possibly take care of a baby either, I was a wreck. Thankfully within a few weeks, I walked through the doors of New Life Family Services. They were amazing. I began meeting with a counselor there regularly. Without judgment, Michelle listened to me, loved on me and supported me, and it didn't cost me a dime. She talked to me about all my choices and without pressuring me in any direction, waited patiently for months for me to make the decision I felt was best. As I learned more about the possibility of adoption, I felt like it was the most loving decision I could make, but I didn't know if I could do it. I was falling in love with this little baby growing inside me, could I really just let her go? At the very least, I knew this baby deserved life. I began looking through profiles of prospective parents. I looked into the eyes of couples who, unlike me, were ready and longing to have a child they could not conceive. My heart was changing and I knew the most selfless, loving thing I could do for this baby was not only to give her life, but to give her the life she deserved. I met and ended up picking the most amazing family to adopt my daughter. They were kind, loving, and had an adorable 4 year old boy just waiting for a sibling. We agreed to what was a fairly new concept at the time; an open adoption. We would send pictures and letters back and forth once a year. On March 2nd, 1995 Sarah Ann was born. She was the most beautiful baby you have ever seen. Big blue eyes, a head full of dark hair... I still remember her fresh baby scent. I am not going to lie to you... placing her in her adoptive parents arms was one of the hardest, most painful things I have ever done. But I knew it was right, I was giving her life.

Fast forward 17 years to 2012. In June I had the opportunity to reunite with Sarah and her family... a day I will treasure into eternity. I think back to those early weeks of that unplanned pregnancy and I am beyond grateful that New Life was there when I needed them. I want to give back by raising $50 for each of the 26 miles I am running. No matter where you stand on the subject, I believe it is the heart of humanity to value the sanctity of life. NLFS makes life possible in the face of utter hopelessness. Thanks for joining me."

Jen's friends and family ending up raising over double what Jen set out to do! Incredible. On top of that she finished the 26.2 mile marathon! Did I mention she did it in just over 4 hours? YUP. She ran her race and she ran it well. I am so proud of my friend. Here a few pictures from the race. I was so happy to be there to capture it!

Be inspired. What are you called to do? What's the race you are running? Dare to dream and dream big...because incredible dreams do come true. Ask Jen!

I'm going to share another inspiring story soon...keep the tissues out!

Engagement Photography - Minneapolis, MN Photographer

You never know how and why someone picks up the phone to call you about capturing their stage of life. A friend of mine Nikki Charlton is an incredible wedding photographer in Toronto, Canada...we were friends long before either of us were photographers! She was in my wedding! A couple of weeks ago I received a call from Janice because Nikki is taking her wedding pictures. I couldn't pass on the opportunity of sharing clients with one of my favorite people right? I'm so glad didn't pass up this opportunity. This couple was amazing.

I love Wedding Photography!

A picture says a thousand words. I love this picture!

How you heard this quote before?

Ask not what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive... then go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. Howard Thurman

It's simple. I love capturing love. And I love being there to serve the bride and groom on the biggest day of their lives...so far.

Thank you for trusting me. I don't take it for granted!

From the heart...

This past January we had our biggest scare as parents. My youngest Clara (not yet 2 at the time) had a severe case of RSV. What started out as a cold, turning into a Doctor's visit, then admittance to St.Francis, then ambulance ride to Children's hospital and finally 3 days of us at Children's PICU. It was incredibly scary...and overwhelming to watch your baby suffer RSV AND deal with tubes, IV's, oxygen, antibiotics and steroids. On the prayers of family and friends we left the hospital in 3 days instead of the 5-7 the Doctor's predicted. So thankful that we were in good hands and she improved instead of worsened while we there.

She came home her normal self and we thought it was a one time deal...until last week. On Thursday morning Clara woke up with a clear running nose so I decided to lay low and stay home. That night she woke up at 10pm with labored breathing so we did a Neb treatment at 12 and 4am...I sleep with her to monitor her breathing and make sure she didn't get worse. That morning we went to the doctor and her oxygen levels were way below where they should be (after doing another neb they were 89% when it should be 97% or higher) They weren't sure if she had pneumonia because her chest was so tight it was hard to hear anything. So, were drove straight to Children's and she was admitted in their Short Stay Unit until Saturday afternoon.

This last episode wasn't even close to being as scary as the first one, but now we're facing lots of tough choices and coming to grips that this wasn't a one time event with her...she may have breathing issues. The doctors want to treat her as an asthma patient, but I'm really hesitant. I know we need to do something because I want to keep going to the hospital with every cold.

Yesterday during a neb treatment I started praying for my little girl. I prayed for her complete healing and then had this thought, "I serve the God that breathed life into dust to create man." He is the breath of life. (Genesis 2:6-8 "Then the LORD God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.") Without Him Clara does not have breath and I don't either. I found this scripture so comforting. He sustains us. I know He will walk us through this season of meeting with doctors and figuring out what's best for Clara. And with every step I'm going to be praying for the breath of life to fill her and heal her! I'm so thankful that I have that hope.

Have any of you walked this path already? I would love to her your thoughts and advise. Matt and I have a follow up appointment with our Pediatrician tomorrow and I want to ask the right questions. Can you help me?

Who am I really?

Today I have worn so many hats. I started thinking about it and thought I'd share. - Got up with the kids and wore my mommy hat. - Made breakfast and wore my service hat. - After coffee, I read and worked on my Beth Moore study of James and wore my student hat. - Then the tidying/cleaning began and I wore my cleaner hat. (can you believe I sorted through our winter hats a gloves? Crazy girl.) - I got the kids set up with coloring and crafts and I wore my teacher hat. - I dusted, vacuumed, did laundry and I wore my "need-to-workout-but-this-will-have-to-do-for-today" hat. - I responded to email and order some prints and wore my business woman hat. - Now I'm blogging and delighting my crazy life...

You have to be a little crazy to do 3 kids, maintain a house, be married, and excel at business ALL AT THE SAME TIME! but, I do it every day. Of course I struggle and I almost always wish I could it better, but it works and I'm so thankful. Ohhh, one more thing, I get tired and want to quit like everyone but, I don't quit...because I believe I'm doing what I should be doing. AND there's something important to learned in everything I face EVERY DAY. So I keep climbing and ask the Lord help me to enjoy the climb as much as the success of reaching the summit.

There is so much more to me. I wear the hats of daughter, sister, friend and mentor. Today I'm taking a step back and taking in the beauty of my hat collection. I'm privileged. and thankful. (Not shopping for more hats at the moment!)

For those of you who read this blog and don't know me personally...be encouraged. We're in this together. Embrace the crazy and enjoy the process of growth! If I knew you better I'd say changing hats is fun and why not laugh today. Here's my "walking through a field laughing shot" by my friend Shelley Paulson (incredible photographer!) Hope it makes you smile!

Does this look like a book you would read?

I love reading Christian Fiction and I've always wanted to do a book cover! It is now checked off my list!

Following on the heels of The Wings of Morning, the first book in Murray Pura's Snapshots in History series, comes this compelling saga of the Civil War.

In April 1861, Lyndel Keim discovers two runaway slaves in her family's barn. When the men are captured and returned to their plantation, Lyndel and her young Amish beau, Nathaniel King, find themselves at odds with their pacifist Amish colony

Nathaniel enlists in what will become the famous Iron Brigade of the Union Army. Lyndel enters the fray as a Brigade nurse on the battlefield, sticking close to Nathaniel as they both witness the horrors of war--including the battles at Chancellorsville, Fredericksburg, and Antietam. Despite the pair's heroic sacrifices, the Amish only see that Lyndel and Nathaniel have become part of the war effort, and both are banished.

And a severe battle wound at Gettysburg threatens Nathaniel's life. Lyndel must call upon her faith in God to endure the savage conflict and to face its painful aftermath, not knowing if Nathaniel is alive or dead. Will the momentous battle change her life forever, just as it will change the course of the war and the history of her country?

The Face of Heaven is a dramatic story that will release on the 150th anniversary of the historic battle of Antietam, September, 1862.

If your looking for a new book...you can pick it up on Amazon.com!

ENJOY!

What does a Wedding Photographer do any day they're not shooting a Wedding?

Here we go: - Edit photos

- Blog photos

- Connect with my husband!

- Set up portrait sessions

- Tweet a little

- Follow up with clients

- Respond to new inquiries

- Set up workshops

- Work on Workshop teaching

- Edit some more...

- Facebook (business and personal)

- Take care of home and kids

- Edit even more!

- Design albums

- Order album, print, proof books

- Accounting

- Connect with Friends

- Return phone calls

- AND did I mention editing?

As you can see from the list above being a wedding photographer isn't all about shooting weddings...it's a lot of business stuff! But, even though it's a mixed bag of "things to do!" Don't let anyone tell you it's not the greatest job in the world. Here's what I'm working on today!

The Haley Family Portraits - Pawley's Island, SC

This family...is so close to my heart. These pictures are my thank you for letting my crazy family crash at your pad for 2 weeks! WOW! If I didn't say it enough "thank you!"

You are loved.

The Hache Family Portraits (Adoption Fundraiser)

I've known this couple...for a really long time...over 10 years? And I love them. Actually I loved them both separately and then I kinda set them up. then I shot their wedding (with film) over 8 years ago. Yup. I did. Now look at their beautiful family.

How times flies.

Please don't let it be another 8 years before I get to capture your family again!

This has nothing to do with Photography...but it's so cute I had to share.

I love music. My oldest daughter has the same love. We share a love for musicals. This year at her school talent show she decided to sing "Somewhere over the rainbow!" from the Wizard of Oz! She wouldn't sing the newer versions she had to be just like Judy Garland...awesome. Here she is being herself, singing her heart out and having the time of her life! Brace yourself for an incredible amount of cuteness.

on the car ride home she sighs and says, "Ohh I wish we could go back to the school and I could sing again!" Wow, right? And she follows that comment up with, "Tomorrow, when people say, 'Hey Adriah!' I'll turn around and say, 'No It's Judy!"

I love this girl!

The Reilly Family Portraits

A family I know and love and MISS! They moved away over a year ago and finally came back to visit as a family...and I was so blessed to capture them again! (Even though I shot their family session outside and nearly froze their kids!) I love you all and happy to celebrate your baby's 2nd birthday!

Maybe I didn't make myself clear.

I'm eating a dove chocolate bar as I sit down and write this post...just being honest! I feel the need to explain myself to you.

I am not a runner.

When I run I feel like I'm going to die.

I would never volunteer to run anywhere.

The furthest I've run is when I have a friend beside me distracting me from my own hyperventilating sounds.

I walk outside (safe) and run on a treadmill (because only "real" runners run outside)

Even then, I've fallen off the treadmill...twice. It's like the treadmill knows it's me and doesn't want to be embarrassed. :)

So, I tell people I'm going to run 1 mile a day for 8 weeks and they say, "Great!" when inside I'm saying, "I hope I make it past the first day!"

And then I think about Human Trafficking...and I stop complaining about how much this is going to hurt.

I care about the strangers out there who are being forced into the slave trade. Did you know that the average age is 13? Or that some are being sold by family members? I care those people and I want to "do" something. If it's possible to end Human Trafficking I want to be a part of that movement. Don't you?

Tread on Trafficking is going to cost me. I'm okay with that. (But, I wouldn't mind company for my runs though!)

As my donation...I'm having a garage sale in May and part of the proceeds are going towards LOVE 146 and part is going towards Olive Tree Adoptions.

I am studying the book of James in the bible and I'm being challenge to live out what I say I believe. Faith means action.

"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do. "

I want you to help me and join me.

Want to run with me? Email me (info@noemiphotography.com) to find out how to join my team.

Want to end Human Trafficking? Sponsor me. Let's do this!